Castle Valley Comments
December 26, 2013
by Ron Drake
Dec 25, 2013 | 592 views | 0 0 comments | 23 23 recommendations | email to a friend | print
Ric Fornelius captures a Christmas scene through his watercolor paintings, which he sends out every year to family and friends.
Ric Fornelius captures a Christmas scene through his watercolor paintings, which he sends out every year to family and friends.
slideshow
Allow me to reminisce a little this week. Christmas time has always been my favorite holiday. For as long as I can remember I’ve looked forward to Christmas and I still get giddy about it. I have found that people seem to be extra cordial around this time of the year and of course a highlight is when families and friends get together for the holidays.

My childhood memory includes our crazy uncle, Tom, who always brought extra excitement when he and his family showed up for Christmas. And the arrival of grandparents added to the chaos.

As a kid, the local store owners always greeted me and others with a “Merry Christmas,” as did the customers on my paper route. That greeting doesn’t seem to happen much anymore, as people seem to be reluctant to wish someone a Merry Christmas for fear of offending. I still like the lights, glitter and the festivities of the season while keeping in mind the real meaning of the occasion.

As I mentioned, I have many fond memories of Christmases past and most have to do with the gathering of family members to celebrate the season. I still have a picture that I took as a kid of my dad napping on the bed on Christmas afternoon, still wearing a Santa hat, after indulging in too much libation after the presents were opened and dinner was served and consumed. As the Christmas season approached, Dad would always tell us that we wouldn’t have much for Christmas because of our seemingly endless financial burdens, but it seemed like there was always plenty of gifts, food and festivities to make it a special occasion.

On the other hand, I still have a vivid memory of one tragic Christmas when I was a young adult. My father-in-law was a sergeant major in the U.S. Army and his assignment was that of an ROTC teacher at San Diego High School. As the ranking soldier in the area during the holiday, he received a call on an early Christmas morning to go to nearby Fallbrook, Calif., to deliver a death notice. A soldier had landed in Los Angeles from Vietnam to be with his family for Christmas, but before he could board a southbound bus from Los Angeles he was hit by a car while crossing a street and died from his injuries.

I hadn’t been out of the Army very long and I was still an Army reservist so he asked me to go with him, for moral support, I suppose. When we arrived at the home, two excited little kids ran out of the house thinking one of us was their father, since they were too young to remember what he looked like. When the sad news was delivered to their mother, we stayed with her for quite a while until her emotions stabilized and her far-off family members could be on their way to be with her during the crisis.

Our fondest Christmas memories in Castle Valley begin with our first Christmas here. It was bitterly cold, with mountains of snow that piled up on the ground until spring. The temperature dropped to 22 degrees below zero several nights that December, but our young family chained up the truck and headed to the mountains in search of the perfect Christmas tree. We would usually go to a tree farm when we lived in California and pick out and cut our own manicured tree, but that experience was not quite the same as going up to the forest in waist-deep snow and selecting one in the wild with its natural imperfections.

This year, as in years past, there were many annual events to enhance the Christmas experience. The Castle Valley Branch of the LDS Church hosted its annual Christmas dinner two weeks ago. The traditional event was well-attended by members of the community. The LDS Church members, the DayStar Academy students, as well as other families and groups usually organize troupes of carolers to spread the joy of the season to their friends and neighbors across the valley with song and goodies.

And speaking of the academy, their gifted choir and musicians have traditionally hosted a Christmas concert for the members of the community. Their popular bell choir has improved every year and added a new dimension to the program. The first program was probably around 1969, when the concert was staged in the basement of the chapel while it was still under construction. They spread straw on the dirt floor to help stem the bitter cold, but those humble beginnings provided a beautiful and sacred event much like the humble birth of the Savior in more ancient times. Another tradition that has been going on in the valley for a while is the National Audubon Society Christmas Bird Count. Alice Drogin again led the group of volunteer citizen scientists last week as they performed the important service.

More people used to send Christmas cards in past years than they do now. As a printer, I used to create custom cards or a Christmas newspaper to send out to friends and relatives at this time of year. Now I seem to have less time than before and usually end up sending greetings by email. Our part-time neighbor, Ric Fornelius, is an avid watercolor artist who sends out a custom Christmas card every year. Each year he says will be his last to create a card, but we still get them and they are anticipated and appreciated because they are so unique and beautiful.

We will probably not receive new snow since our abundant snowstorm last Dec. 7, but the cold weather has preserved that snow so we will still have a white Christmas after all. Christmas just doesn’t seem right without snow on the ground.

My hope and wish is that your Christmas will be filled with memories this week, and the sacred season will fill your heart with love and compassion.

Merry Christmas!

Copyright 2013 The Times-Independent. All rights reserved. This material may not be published, broadcast, rewritten or redistributed.

report abuse...

Express yourself:

We're glad to give readers a forum to express their points of view on issues important to this community. That forum is the “Letters to the Editor.” Letters to the editor may be submitted directly to The Times-Independent through this link and will be published in the print edition of the newspaper. All letters must be the original work of the letter writer – form letters will not be accepted. All letters must include the actual first and last name of the letter writer, the writer’s address, city and state and telephone number. Anonymous letters will not be accepted.

Letters may not exceed 400 words in length, must be regarding issues of general interest to the community, and may not include personal attacks, offensive language, ethnic or racial slurs, or attacks on personal or religious beliefs. Letters should focus on a single issue. Letters that proselytize or focus on theological debates will not be published. During political campaigns, The Times-Independent will not publish letters supporting or opposing any local candidate. Thank you letters are generally not accepted for publication unless the letter has a public purpose. Thank you letters dealing with private matters that compliment or complain about a business or individual will not be published. Nor will letters listing the names of individuals and/or businesses that supported a cause or event. Thank you letters about good Samaritan acts will be considered at the discretion of the newspaper.